On Hardball last night Chris Matthews had Thomas Tobin, Bishop of Providence, Rhode Island, to explain himself about banning Congressman Patrick Kennedy from taking communion. Over the weekend, Kennedy, Teddy's son, revealed that the bishop had banned him and ordered priests to not serve him communion because he supports abortion rights for women. Kennedy revealed the 3 year old bishop's order in a widening dispute he's having with the bishop over the church's opposition to health care reform legislation.
Matthews tore the good bishop a new one, as he should have, over the church's meddling in matters of public policy. Have a look:
Bishop Tobin clearly wasn't used to being put in the hot seat, and couldn't articulate what abortion policy should be, what the punishment should be for having an abortion, and whether to criminalize abortions for abortion doctors. Matthews didn't let up, telliing Tobin that bishops should stay out of matters public policy and lawmaking in our secular society.
For my part, Chris was right and the bishop got what was coming to him.
Matthews tore the good bishop a new one, as he should have, over the church's meddling in matters of public policy. Have a look:
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Bishop Tobin clearly wasn't used to being put in the hot seat, and couldn't articulate what abortion policy should be, what the punishment should be for having an abortion, and whether to criminalize abortions for abortion doctors. Matthews didn't let up, telliing Tobin that bishops should stay out of matters public policy and lawmaking in our secular society.
For my part, Chris was right and the bishop got what was coming to him.
Eymard, You actually have to read the post to comment intelligently. Matthews went after Tobin not over his OPPOSITION to abortion, but transgressing into lawmaking, then admitting ignorance of the lawmaking process. Matthews even said he AGREED with the Bishop's stand on abortion, but that it was none of his business to actually punish lawmakers for not toeing the church's line. Kennedy is not a congressman for the catholics...he's congressman for everyone including pregnant women. The bishop (and many other religious types) have been trying to impose their own particular ideology into secular laws. Matthews appropriately called Tobin out on that.
You have some fair points except the vast majority of us aren't arguing that point. As I said in my two other replies, I am a pro life democrat. I support the health care bills since BOTH do not and cannot allow federal dollars to be spent on abortions. My problem with the church is that it often takes political decisions out of ignorance of the political process and current US law. They have always been better off articulating their own position in moral/ethical terms and allowing us (members of the church) to apply that ourselves to any political situation. Instead, they often get swept away by the oppositional rhetoric and end up preaching against a bill even though it is actually better for its members and for their goals. I don't mind the church focusing on their own issues, but if you are going to do that you shouldn't state your positions in political terms. Individuals can watch Fox News, but the church should be more informed than that if they want to preach from the pulpit.
Oh, come on guys, even for libs like you guys chris’ arguement doesn’t hold water… Chris Matthews argument was that because the Bish because Bishop Thomas Tobin couldn’t delineate the EXACT punishment for abortion–if it were to become illegal–that some how he has no right to voice his opposition to it, or to tax dollars funding it? you’re not that thick, are you? Should Martin Luther King Jr. not have been allowed to voice his opposition to racist unless he first described what the penalty for racism? I’m against child pornography (as I suspect you libs are too), but i don’t know EXACTLY what the penalty should be–5 years? 10 years? 25? life in prison? death penalty?– so I guess chris matthews would tell me (and most of you anti-child porn libs out there) that we should first figure the penalty out before we’re allowed to voice our opposition to it being legal, or to my tax money funding it. what a foolish argument…
plus, that wasn’t an interview, it was just chris venting.
by the way, the bishop’s letter was issued in 2004… funny timing huh? with the obama care abortion issue and all.
Carol,
excellent recap!
MT4, just choked on my water -- too freakin' funny!
Look folks, to my thinking, we agree on several points --
1. No church, or their officials, need to get involved in politics. If they do, yank their tax exempt status.
2. A woman, and IMO, her partner need to be involved in the decision on abortion -- everyone else stay the hell out.
3. If you are sexually active, if you don't want to "do the time", for Gods sake, take precautions! You are responsible for a new life if you don't!
4. I am officially off of my soap box....
Well it was my lucky condom. And there wasn't anything on the package that said you couldn't use it more than once. How was I supposed to know ?
But seriously, I remember that there were guys in high school that were embarrassed to buy condoms. I could never understand that. Like your wife, I had no problem buying them because it meant I was getting laid. What's embarrassing about that ?
@carguy
Excellent! Are you exhibiting a vehicle? If so, which?
Oh, and lapsed Catholic here, too.
That was all without the benefit of nuns. When my parents tried to throw me to the nuns, I told them I'd deliberately fail all my classes unless they sent me back to the public school. They held out for only a week. Success!
You "broke" a condom? You never know how long those ones in the men's room vending machines have been there.
Funny story, my wife quit taking birth controls pills due to headaches. She would always "volunteer" to go to the store and buy condoms if we were out. I asked her, "Don't you find that a little embarassing?"
"No", she replied. "I find it entertaining. When there's a guy there, they always look at you with a wistful smile. When there's a woman there they look at you, kinda wishfully, as if to say all right, I see you're lucky, you're getting laid." She was.
@ SSTM..Re: thinking for yourself
I guess it depends on what kind of nuns you had teaching you. I had some strict "hardliners" but most encouraged us to explore and define for ourselves our faith. They didn't say the church was ever wrong, but that it wasn't 100% right ALL THE TIME.
I tried several other churches and, were I to go back, Catholicism, despite its shortcomings, appealed to me the most. Oh, I disagree with birth control and abortions, but I just won't discuss those matters with bishop or the pope, if I see them, again. That's right.....AGAIN.
My mother's family were VIP's in their church in Port Arthur. The bishop spoke at ALL my family funerals over there.
And, I used to be in travel and have been to Rome and the Vatican. I saw the Pope and he spoke to me.........and a few thousand other people who happened to be there with me. I gotta tell you guys.....that was quite an experience.
Bobo,
I love it...yeah, I can give up an argument but never a war... :o)
In truth, several years ago I told my ex that if she didn't try harder to see my way of things (at least sometimes) I would make her child support payments a little less convenient to receive. She took the hint and we haven't had a single real argument since...
Certainly a lot of comments; moreso than usual. A lot of catholics.
I sometimes think that organized religions have too many secular laws and not enough Jesus doings.
Eg. While not personally in favor of abortion per se, I notice this continual thread of argument - the pro-lifers take on the authority of birthing without the attendant responsibility after the birthing.
We can see this in the right wingers and their opposition to funding chips.
An argument for removing any church tax exemption is when they act like a lobbyist eg, when calling on legislatures to vote against the health bill if it even remotely has any connection to abortion access or a bishop threatening the life (spiritual) of a congressman, Pat Kennedy, who separates his secular duties from the religious as per the Constitution.
The main thing I see missing from all this is any approach to any discussion of how to prevent the need for abortion in the first place. Ever wonder why?
Perhaps to so do would mean getting to some ugly causations that could only lead to some unpleasant remedies which, in turn, would be too hot a political potato given the large number of citizens who lack critical thinking abilities or selfless agendas.
@ machine..I've never seen them restrict photos at this event. Hope you enjoy.
Yeah, the whole seduction thing. That dream of a shared life is very seductive.
It's easier to write dryly on this topic, and the topic of love and marriage, than it is to articulate the tangled emotions we bring to our relationships.
Even though divorce is common now, it's a field of hurt for everyone involved.
Your former wife should respect you as a parent, if not as a former husband, even now. But she appears not to. She's angry, too. She's hurt, too. How will the two of you ever get to a more acceptable place?
I don't know. You seem like a pretty tenacious guy (I go to chron.com, too). Can you give up?
@carguy
I'm looking forward to taking pictures there on Saturday (if the event allows). Look for the dashingly handsome bald genius with the camera gear. I'll be somewhere nearby.
Bobo,
the absolute power thing is also interesting, if not an area for some lucrative thought. If one wants to agree with your view, would it be fair to suggest that with that absolute power comes an awesome responsibility for its benevolent use? Or is it true that absolute power has the propensity for absolute corruption?
I, for one, think that power is highly overrated! The only real power is the power to share the best of ourselves. Now that's empowering!
Bobo,
that's interesting but what if a woman seduces a male into thinking he has a stake in the process? For example, when I got married I assumed that my wife and I would have a mutual responsibility for raising a child. If she had decided on an abortion I would have had no input worth considering? Of course, that never would have happened but she did decide with the help of the court system that I had lesser value as a parent than she did but that fact notwhithstanding I was considered essential for purposes of child support.
Please don't misunderstand me, I love my daughter beyond words and have always invested most of my time and money in her well being. My point is that between the system and my ex I was deemed pretty useless barring the exception of my wallet's value.
Nice conversation today.
Generally speaking, I think a woman has the only say that matters when it comes to her body.
I also think that this makes many people choke on that absolute power in the hands of a woman.
I also think that if you, male or female, don't ever want to support a child, you shouldn't have sex. Or, if you just want to up the odds that you won't ever support a child, you could use protected sex -- two types, simultaneously, offers the most promise.
(I had classmates at UT who used only birth control pills. They had twins .)
SST,
I forgot to mention that I am quite adept at abstaining. I've decided that is the only sane path for me.
Ha, SST,
I'm in the process of doing that very thing. All I need is the public system (police and judges) to get out of my way...
Each couple will deal with it differently, but as a matter of law, the answer is no.
Alienhunter,
on this we can agree, but my point us that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I don't ever remember a priest or bishop denying Eucharist to a pro-life or pro- war politician when the church's teachings on those issues are just as emphatic and unyielding. Isn't it funny how a church that has so many teachings in line with the democratic party ONLY chooses to punish political liberals for that one belief. I am a very devout Catholic and choose to vote Democratic because of that, not in spite of it.
Regardless of the situation, when someone says it's not about the money; you can rest assured that it is most definitely about the money.
While I agree with your post 100%, what about the rare occurrence where the condom breaks ? Should men have any say as to whether the pregnancy is terminated at that point ?
Oops. That's what I get for not reading through to the end of a thread before replying.
Alienhunter, you've got a say: use reliable contraception, or abstain. Guys don't have to go through pregnancy, and the vast majority of guys do far, far less than women do re childrearing.
If you don't like it, then change the gender paradigm.
Carol,
yeah, I see...I'm way out of line...I guess I'm still fired up from the argumentative threads I was on the past couple of days. It appears I'm going to lose my beloved avatar as I think I've been banned. I just hope the idiots I was trading low blows with are unable to return as well.
Make that why I stated - I can't spell today!
ok,
my bad, I'll have to reread...
AH, which is why is stated "men not directly involved".
Scott,
the issue of the Eucharist...when I was married I felt that my wife was receiving the sacrament when her inner spirit was not in the proper state to do so. I never told her because I figured it wasn't my place to judge her worthiness. The environment I grew up in didn't take that aspect of church teaching lightly.
I did find it curious when my ex was told by her parish priest that she couldn't receive the sacrament because of her marital state (She's remarried and I'm thankfully still single) I just smiled my little internal smile and thought, "Finally"
Carol,
yes, I suspected the child support would still stand. But, my point was that I think significant others should have a say...unless, the necessities of conception have changed without my being consulted.
AlienHunter, I could be wrong but I think the child support will still stand.
I believe what bobo's friend was saying is that men that are not directly involved, i.e. religious leaders, politicans,etc., really don't have a say - or should not have a say - with what the woman who is most certainly involved does with her body.
On this I concur.
Bobo,
Men have no say? Does that mean we can arbitrarily choose to not pay child support?
I can't imagine they're going to have many takers as long as Ratzinger...er, Pope Benedict CXLIII...is in charge.
Outstanding comment Scott. Actually, pretty good discussion as a whole today.
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All sorts of people here were raised Catholic! Based on my experience, as yet another of the legion of people who were raised Catholic but who no longer are, I gotta say that, where matters of Church doctrine were concerned, we were absolutely _never_ supposed to "think for ourselves." What the Church said, or what someone or other thought they said (sort of like how many right wingers think they know what the Constitution "says"), was THE LAW. We were to obey. We were not to ask questions. It was the "sit down, shut up, good dog" school of Catholicism.
It sounds like Bishop Tobin is a supporter of that particular school of Catholicism. Too bad. It's one of the truly ugly varieties, and it does seem to hold a lot of sway.
I have taken note of a new program started by the Catholic Church. Its called "Catholics come home". In talking with a neighbor who has one of the signs in their yard, its about getting "lapsed" Catholics to return to the church. She told me its not about the money or the issues, its to get people to return to the true religion. She was not willing to talk about the issues that caused people to leave: Abortion rights, pedophilia, or archaic principles. What does that tell you about todays, Catholic Church.
I agree that they should have their tax exempt status taken away as these Bishops insert themselves into the issues on this level.
I'm a proud Catholic and support the church's position on abortion. That being said, the church has no business pushing political candidates or policy. Generally speaking, I find their knowledge of politics to be lacking and therefore, they really don't understand how their policies could even be carried out or who will do the carrying out.
I tend to follow the Jesus teaching, "give to Caesar what is Caesar's and God what is God's". For me, that means that what the church teaches is the ideal and should always be the ideal. I don't want to the church to compromise its positions based on the needs and wants of the real world. Catholics should always strive for the ideal.
That being said, the church should always realize that human beings will never reach the ideal. Politicians must exist in the real world and will never survive to do good if they hold to the ideal. Most Catholics I know "live in sin" in one way or another according to church teachings, but we still get eucharist. We need eucharist or we will never reach that ideal. So, in short, I say keep preaching the ideal with the acute realization that all of us won't reach it and shouldn't be punished for not doing so.
Yes, raised Catholic as well but do not find myself agreeing with all their issues. In many ways, the still in the Dark Ages. Do you know if you are a female employee of any Archdiocese in the country, their healthcare does not cover contraceptives? Amazing. In some ways, a lot like the extreme right - all for life and living morally but we all know the truth and that kind of thinking is IGNORANCE.
I was raised a catholic, too. I agree with carolsb and pretty much had that conversation with a girlfriend over the weekend. She feels men have no say in the matter, including and especially bishops and priests.
I was educated by the nuns, the sisters of Notre Dame, through 8th grade. They emphasized research and reading over rote memorization as the mark of an educated person.
I personally feel that the policies of the church in south America, for example, create misery for those who try to follow them. No birth control? No family planning? In countries where dirty water regularly kills babies? Idiocy.
I hold all those priests and policy makers in contempt.
It's time for churches to lose their tax exempt status since they refuse to keep their views and opinions out of politics.
They're nothing but a bunch of hypocrites. They spent decades protecting and enabling child rapists. They had to be dragged kicking and screaming to the table to give the victims any measure of justice and even now are insisting that the known child rapists have earned their pension. They've completely bastardized any sense of moral authority they may have had at one time yet still seem to think they and only they should be the nation's moral compass. It's ludicrous.
I like the hats though.
As I mentioned. I was raised Catholic. One thing that I was taught (I can't speak for others) was that everyone should THINK FOR THEMSELVES. I suspect some of you are surprised by that. But, unlike other churches that tend to frown upon that, you gotta give the Roman Catholic church credit where credit is due. Lots of Catholics move on to other religions when they find Catholicism doesn't serve them well. I think that supports my statement.
I was raised Catholic too. I think, overall, it did me well. But this is a little over the line according to my compass. Maybe more thas "a little". I'm gonna have to check my notes from my childhood but I don't think the bishop has that authority. If so, he certainly abused it.
I don't have any problem with religious leaders expressing an opinion but the expressing should be where it ENDS.
As we discussed the "freedom of speech" provision in our constitution need to be revisited. But, the "seperation of church and state" was, I think, the best thing our founding fathers did.
Artemus,
I suspect that Bishop Tobin is one of probably a minority that feels they have the right to stick their nose in public business and worse yet, manipulate it with the 'moral power' of the church...wrong! The real job of the church hierarchy is guidance not coercion! But that is a fine line to traverse.
Sorry I missed it live. Few things anger me more than the Roman Catholic Church hierarchy, a bunch of unelected, narrowly educated, authoritarian bigots. They speak for no one beside themselves. Most Catholics ignore them. Each member of the American Catholic church hierarchy had one vote last November, assuming they were registered and bothered to vote. My guess is that their preferred candidate lost. Tough. Now, they need to back off and let democracy work, a concept that most of them cannot begin to comprehend.
I was raised Catholic and while I am no longer a practicing Catholic and I am not in favor – personally – of abortion, I damn sure am not going to tell another woman, who’s shoes I do not walk in, what she should do with her own body.
I also believe in the Separation of Church and State and this Bishop, IMO, crossed over the line. No religion has any business telling Senators how to vote on any issue. Period!
I saw this interview last night and loved it. I do like Chris because he always does put people in their place and call them out on the facts and apparent lack of knowledge of policy and law.